College and Career: Exploring Calling and Vocation

By Ellie Hyvonen

The ninth grade College and Career class is currently exploring the themes of calling and vocation. In addition to working through their student workbooks and engaging in thoughtful class discussions, Miss Ellie has invited a different guest speaker to each class to share insights from a variety of professions, trades, and life callings.

This week, we were pleased to welcome Bob deRose, founder of Abbey Run Construction. Bob spoke candidly with students about his journey as a business owner and answered a wide range of thoughtful questions, including: What is the difference between a calling and a job? What are the most fulfilling and most challenging aspects of owning a business? How did you build your company? Why are you always on the phone? And how did you balance running a business while raising a family?

Bob offered practical wisdom that resonated deeply with the students. He emphasized that, regardless of one's profession, reputation is everything. Honesty, transparency, and a commitment to doing the right thing are essential. He encouraged students to become problem-solvers who seek solutions and serve others well. Students also learned that success in construction, as in any field, depends on strong communication, teamwork, and the ability to work effectively with a wide range of personalities.

One of Bob’s most memorable lessons was that the world “owes you nothing.” He challenged students to work hard, steward their resources wisely, and understand the value of a dollar. He also stressed the importance of charging clients fairly based on what you can truly deliver, rather than on what you believe you are “worth.”

The students were highly engaged and grateful for the opportunity to learn from Bob’s experience. On Wednesday, they look forward to hearing from Coach Doug Langlois, whose many roles include veteran, pilot, father, coach, gardener, and musician.

This combination of academic study and firsthand professional insight is an invaluable part of the College and Career course. There is no better way to learn about calling and vocation than by hearing directly from men and women who are faithfully living them out each day.